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All is well.  Remember when I was afraid she would be too shy and not playful?  What a joke!  She is a great combination of very playful AND very snuggly.  She sleeps on my neck at night and LICKS like made.  Her new name--after much deliberation among family members--is Suvi.  (Sounds like Sue V) It is an old Finnish word for Summer, and is a girl's name.  Kind of like "Autumn" here.  We figured since we got her in the summer, it worked.  
 
Suvi has been 100% perfect on her littler box skills--even when she's playing downstairs, she will RUN upstairs and dive bomb her box to make it on time. 

 Our neighbor teen-aged cat was soooo happy to see her! She has been mourning our kitty that we lost.  Suvi smacked her along the head and walked off.  I hope that relationship improves.

We are still working on staying off the dining room table. A spray bottle is helping Suvi remember that cats don't belong on tables.
Our oldest son and his wife took  Suvi to Pet Smart to play on the cat climbers and bought her a new collar and ID tag.  This week we are getting the last round of shots. 

Thank you again so much!