2/21/13:

So far so good.  Earlier she and gatto were chasing each other around upstairs.  Sounded like elephants.  You were right on about the three days too.  Gatto warned up to her.  It was almost just like you said.  She was enjoying her first time ever sitting on the furniture when gatto jumped up on the chair and started hissing.  She sat there calmly, head bowed.  After he sniffed her all over he started grooming her.  Ahhh, grasshopper.  They slept together that night.  Last night I think she slept in the cat carrier because of saw her coming out of it this morning. I think they are going to hit it off.

Anyway, all is well here.  Dogs getting used to it too.  Turtle has discovered my closet and the upstairs as safe zones.  she is a little smarty pants.

2/18/13:

Yesterday I was holding her in the garage and jim came in.  scared, she jumped from my arms and spent the day exploring the garage where I was working to get the puppy pen set up and the chicken pen cleaned.  She was playing coy and wouldn't let me catch her all day but we did interact.  Gatto was in the house all day so at bedtime I figured i'd put him in the wire crate. Once done turtle key me catch her so I swapped them out.  Gatto hissing and spitting all the while.  She doesn't seem to take him seriously because even he does that she approaches him.